as I went to Spellhold my party member's experience were high and when Imoen joined I noticed that her exp was only 400k. I was dissapointed of Imoen because her low exp would take a lot of time to get the exp of those other members and besides when Imoen joined my party had now a total of 4 mages (mine, Aerie, Nalia, Imoen). Also I think that if i told Imoen off, she wouldn't come back (the case the same as Jaheira).

I know how you feel, i think she is kind of a whiny b@#!$, but i followed how i really felt and booted her @$$, actually role-playing, not just going to what is "most beneficial" to the party, in hindsight (ie reloads