Yeah it kinda sucks. Aerie and Jaheira were both styling my charecter to the point of bikering. It got on my nerves. Now I have to ask, does this do anything special towards the game or is it a minor inconvinience?

You can only ruin the romances through dialog. Jaheira and Aerie will fight over you and you will eventually have to make a choice.

Viconia is also a romance possibility.

Yeah I know you can only wrec it through dialog and thats how I did it.

I don't have Viconia in my group.

Now I have to ask, does this do anything special towards the game No you can play the game normal,only Aerie and my beloved Jaheira :D won't romance you.But if you want a romance,than fetch yourself Viconia(but if you play an elf,she won't romance you)

It would be interesting to know all the wrong dialogue choices people have picked in romances... would made for a very funny read. I actually never made a deliberate mistake in the dialogues myself - only when i forced myself to romance Aerie, I always slammed her and told her to stop whining and after every dialogue fixed the romance to be active again with SK.

when you get an option in the dialogue support who you want to continue your romance with and brush the other person of gently. If you want a quick way:

to romance Aerie
Kick out jaheira, then get her back

to romance jaheira
kick out aerie, rest for three days then get her back

Is it necessary to do Xsar's quest with the Harper thing and rescue Monty to romance Jaheira? I thought since he was evil and I couldn't get him in my party anyways I might as well kill him and grab his loot! But afterwards Jaheira has been talking and she got taken hostage by those bandits and we killed them... Any points of view?

You have to do all harper quests for Jaheira and her romance.