Does anyone know if the romance for Nalia works without ToB?? And if not is there a mod that I can download to make it so that I can romance anyone?

To the first question, it says that it requires ToB. Check here (http://web.starman.ee/arnel/nalia/downloads.htm) to be sure I am correct.

To the second question, look here. (http://www.sorcerers.net/Games/BG2/index_editors1.htm)