After killing pesky Bodhi once and for all, you search coffin and get her black evil heart, question is what can be done with this damn thing? Will some church accept it?

IIRC you can bring back your lover with the hart. (I don't want to spoil it too much for you.)

hmm, i didnt have to, my lover didnt get infected.. how do u get that to happen?

to get your romance infected, just make sure it is at the end off it (paticence please) before you go into the graveyard. here a spoiler if you want to know more
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whichever romance is at or near the end of the romance quest, and you have not already gone into the graveyard at chapter (7?), enter it and bohdi (sic?) will pop up. at this moment your romance will get bitten and turned into a vamp. you will be forced to kill him or her. once this is done, you can pick up his\her bodie and go kill bohdi. once this is done stake her and snag her heart. snag the books from the adjecent room. go to umar hills. if you have not found umar hill then find DELON, a boy wandering around the city. once theses quests have been done, in the 'TEMPLE RUINS' location on your map. find the statue with its 'arms waiting for something' place in its arms theses:
your romance
the heart
next, read the books.
I THINK you have to place these in as well
and Volia! your romance is alive!
hope that helps!

thanks, does it work if uve already finished the romance? , i had arie as my romance and i slept with her sometime before i did the kill bodie quest (i like to do all the side quests before i do the story)

Worked with me and Viconia!

Ermm.. spoilers for Bodhi's lair (which if you've read the above posts you already know :) ) --->

Heh I had Aerie vamp but the thing is in the final fight with Bodhi I had drizzt helpin out and he kept chopping Aerie into pieces so no body left LOL. The next try I was trying to kill aerie myself with magic missiles and so but viconia's Aerial servant rolled a critical hit and boom 60 damage Aerie in pieces again :). Damn it's hard to keep those summoned creatures in order.

Well finally I managed to kill her withought blowing her up but this time Jaheria was charmed and although I dominated her and the charm spell wore off later on and tho she had that green circle Drizzt kept attacking her after all was killed. I tried to reason with him but still... ah whacked him to say the least :( What's with this guy anyways. And with Drizzt helping out I think Bodhi's lair was way too easy.

Because I actually romance no one (except drow Phaere :D), I haven't experienced charmed lover yet.

Thank you for info!